It was 8 years ago today that you showed your ugly face to us in that decrepit hospital room. You had been ravaging our child for weeks before we found you out, and when you finally showed your despicable face we shuddered with despair.
We have long known you as a dirty-handed villain, we knew that you picked on babies, and hated the idea of you. Then you picked on our baby, and you went from a nameless, faceless boogeyman to our personal nemesis.
We were told that the only recourse was to go to war, and the battle began forthwith. Our son’s oncologist warned us of the cost, and how close the battle within would come to destroying your host, our child. In our haste to wreck destruction on you, we discounted those words, only to recall them when they so quickly came to fruition.
Yes, you almost stole my child, yes, you ravaged his body, his spirit and our whole family. You robbed him of more than we can itemize and there’s no recovering the loss.
You took him, and us, through shadowed valleys where every good thing was shrouded by your hideous, omnipresent veil. You pilfered our peace, joy, and hope. You took things you have no right to even touch.
Eight long years after you swept into our lives as a thief, we have repaired the gaping holes you left behind with patches lovingly crafted to cover the horrible gaps. We have used great diligence to restore the chaos you created.
Though we have repaired the outside, fortified our foundations and by most appearances we are whole, those scars remain.
Dear Cancer, as we close this letter it is with the resolve that we will not allow you to have any more plunder than what you’ve already taken. You will not reap bitterness, nor resentment; we will permit you not to perpetuate your ruination, you shall not taste the satisfaction of our rancour. Though the terror you wrought often threatens to creep in, we resolve that peace will win and fear will lose.
But we shan’t forget you. In your memory we will pay forward all manner of love, goodness, and Shalom. As a tribute we will share joy, peace and well-being; we will stand in solidarity with the many you continue to pillage.
Dear Cancer, we believe that Love wins, and we won’t allow you to take that from us too.
Sincerely, the fighters