Many bloggers take great care to avoid showing their children's faces, to keep a modicum of privacy for their families. They make up blog names for their kids and keep the family's identity anonymous. I get that, the Internet is far from safe, people steal photos of children and use them for rotten purposes. It seems that it's foolish to churn out photo after photo of my precious brood.
But I do.
It's because I want you to see them, to really see my kids.
I want you to get used to their features; those almond shaped eyes and small mid face that are the hallmarks of Down syndrome.
I want you to see their humanity, their preciousness, and to recognize them as the multifaceted, complex people that they are.
Alex was stared at yesterday. Blatantly, unavoidably stared at for several minutes yesterday. I'm sure it's because he wears his diagnosis on his sweet face. Anyone who might not be familiar or comfortable with Down syndrome will see his differences and not be able to stop examining him in order to perhaps put a finger on just what is different about him.
I want a world where every single person can look at someone with a disability and see the human being, not the difference.
By my sharing of photographs and our daily ups and downs, I hope to give insight that will facilitate that. I want people to understand that my children are as adorable and adored as any other child, and also to realize that there are differences and challenges; both for them and for us as parents and caregivers.
This is all my bodacious effort to make the world a place where they are accepted.
How can I do that if you never see their faces?
I know that some will disagree, and I'm okay with that. In fact I'll gladly listen to any dissenting voice. I've never claimed to have all the answers. I'm just doing everything in my power to make the world a safe, accepting, and welcoming place for my children.
Something many parents get to take for granted.