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10 Things That Happen When You Have An Unusual Name

Picture this:  

It’s March of 1973 and a couple is expecting their third child.   Deciding on a name in case of another girl proves fruitless (they already have two well-named girls), and mom has been trying to convince dad to name this one after her grandfather (and it’s going over like a lead balloon). 

They sit down to watch the show “King Fu”, (about a Buddhist monk in the old west) and Jodie Foster is playing a girl named “Alethea”. Mom slyly sees an opportunity to nickname the baby “Lee” after her grandfather and both parents agree to the name (and hope for a boy). 

Having an unusual name has it’s ups and downs. For example:

  1. I’ve never had to deal with being one of two or three people with the same name in any situation ever. 
  2. In fact I’ve never met another person with my exact name. I’ve seen Aletha’s and Althea’s, but never another Alethea. (Though I know they exist!)
  3. I’ve never had my name on any item, ever (unless you count “World’s Greatest Mom”.)
  4. I get nicknamed, whether I want it or not. 
  5. Mispronunciations can be comical. I’ve been called everything from Athena to Ophelia!  (It’s pronounced Uh-Lee-Thi-Uh). 
  6. Spelling it every time. Except to the few people who know Greek. In fact clergy always get my name right!
  7. It’s just about magical when someone gets it right, especially when combined with my last name, which is equally challenging. 
  8. It’s so exotic people ask me what country I’m from. (I’m Dutch/German from Michigan, for what it’s worth). 
  9. I feel loved when people use it preferentially (my husband often does and my dad nearly always). 
  10. I turned out to be just as unusual as my moniker, so it’s utterly apt. 
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2 thoughts on “10 Things That Happen When You Have An Unusual Name

  1. My daughters all have unusual names but I have a regular name and still have to spell it EVERY time because it is spelled a lit of ways. My girls all have short nicknames wr use when they eill nr announced so they won’t get butchered.

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    1. Cre8tive spelling have become common enough that I think a lot of people presume that any name must be spelled differently than usual.

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