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How The Gift Of Perspective Can Make You Grateful For The Crud

I’ve subsisted on NyQuil, DayQuil, Pepto and tiny bowls of Cheerios for a few days now. Every time I finish a bowl of said Cheerios I’m blessed with a quick little race…to the bathroom. I’ve never been a sprinter, but necessity can bring out the best in anyone. 

2 of my 3 kids have been on 2 different antibiotics in the past 2 weeks, and my husband is barely hanging on. 

The cold and flu season has been brutal to us this year. 

This is when I appreciate the gift of perspective. I tried to share it in a blog post here, and then on HuffPost, but the HuffPost commenters thought the piece misguided. 

I’m back from a different angle to give it another shot. It’s about perspective. 

From my current point of view, this sucks. I don’t like being sick, and it’s even worse when the whole family is suffering. We’re missing work and school and racking up doctor bills. 

However 

I realize just how normal this is, and I remember the terror of the cold and flu season when Benwas in leukemia treatment. That night we gave ibuprofen and Tylenol alternating to ride out a fever, he would have been unable to take either and would have gone to the emergency room as soon as his temp hit 101.5 axillary, possibly buying a few nights inpatient. I remember being sick while lying on a cold, hard cot in his room with alarms and night vitals and crummy coffee. 

And I know that with his insufficient immune system, and other medical issues it could happen again at any time, even without the rules for a cancer patient sending us there as soon as a fever hits a certain number. 

So here I sit. Flopped out in my chair, feeling like I was drug through a knothole backward, and being thankful to be home. Being thankful the antibiotics work. Being thankful we aren’t where we used to be, and thinking of the many, many people who are still on that path. 

Nope, we don’t have it so bad. We’ll make it through this, just like we’ve made it through many worse days. 

Perspective is a hard earned gift, and one I almost wish I didn’t have. But I do have it, and it makes me thankful for a fairly normal cold and flu season. 

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